Story Behind The Song

I dated a woman with kids who was kind of dating another guy, and I was fine having this little relationship on the side, since she wasn't married and I didn't want all the responsibilities of kids, etc. so I was fine being her "back door man".

Song Description

A guy expresses to a woman that he wants to be the "other man" in her life

Lyrics

I wanna be your back door man
I wanna make you understand
That I don't need to be the one
To tuck you in at night
But baby I could be the one
To give your life a little shot of fun
Until you wear that wedding band
I'll be your back door man

Now as a full time guy
You know I'd be no good to you
I'd probably make you sad
And leave you feeling blue
But baby I know there are times
A woman has things on her mind
She needs a guy to hold her hand
And be her back door man

And so you think he's the one
To keep you warm and feeling right
To help take care of the kids
And read 'em stories at night
But baby every now and then
When your world comes a crashin in
Just come along and take my hand
I'll be your back door man

Now if you're feelin bad about what's going on
Remember, he told you he'd never say those two little words "Ido"
So if sometimes you think what we're doin is wrong
I'm here to tell you that all along
What he don't know
Won't hurt...... me and you

Repeat first verse