Her or Me

Story Behind The Song

Someone told me his marriage was perfect for him because "we don't think about each other when we're not together." Now, whether that's what she thinks is another issue. But it got me thinking: What if you found yourself involved with someone who felt that way - he has his wife or other girlfriend and you too. What if you see where it is heading (heartache for you)? Maybe you ask him to make a choice and, if you're the one he doesn't think about when he's not with you, he could let you go find someone who does.

Song Description

Asking a lover to choose between two women

Song Length 3:10 Genre Pop - Easy Listening
Tempo Medium Slow (91 - 110) Lead Vocal Female Vocal
Mood Diplomatic Subject Relationship, Unrequited Love
Language English

Lyrics

Her or Me?

Cho: Her or me? Her or me?
Who's it gonna be? Her or me?

V1: I find it hard to believe I'm here in this place
I'm thinking I ought to leave before I go crazy

Cho:

V2: I'm worried about my heart and the toll it's taking
Spending so much time apart while you're making up your mind

Cho:

Bridge: No matter who you choose
Someone's gonna lose
If you're not thinking of me when you're not with me
Can you find it in your heart to set me free?

Cho:

Lyrics Jill Detroit Music Jill Detroit
Producer Bill Bentley Productions Performance Jill Detroit, vocals; Bill Bentley, instruments
Label Independent

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